17 Jun We Almost Didn’t Make It
Posted at 12:41h
by Natalie Jill
We almost didn’t make it. 10 years together, married 5 years TODAY at the San Diego courthouse (then 2 months later with family and friends) And…yup… we almost didn’t make it. So many ups and downs but WOW, so worth the journey!
I am more in love with my husband today than the day I said “I do”
What didn’t work for us:
Needing to be “right”
Putting work before each other
Forgetting what we love about each other
Talking to others about our blame.
Expecting the other to “change”
Wanting to quit when it got hard
Meaning our commitment
Working on ourselves and taking personal responsibility
Lots and lots and LOTS of personal development.
Letting the unimportant things go
Remembering our intentions
Working THROUGH things
Creating space to truly be with each other.
Men if you want a strong woman be a safe place for her. Strong women need to feel safe and secure. Step into your masculine. You know what that means.
Women if you want a…